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A size 18 woman, posting some of her least flattering, double chin-featuring pics, received 18 messages in five days.

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The official instructions for moderators deciding on whether photos reported to us should be deleted is ‘ladies no nips, guys no dongs’.(Unless they let me moderate the conversations - that's where the really juicy stuff happens.) We call it ‘Scammer Grammar’: that weird, ‘hang on, what the hell is this word doing here?’ syntax that tells you that your correspondent is typing in a language that is not his mother tongue. If you genuinely think that Jo, the perky Nebraskan who fancied a holiday in Sub-Saharan Africa only to immediately have her (his) money and passport stolen, picked you out as the recipient of her (his) distress call because you are better looking and more engaging than the long line of other mid-thirties guys who haven’t seen the inside of a gym since 2004, then you have another thing coming.Ah, the number of online dating profiles I’ve seen with that kind of Byron-worthy poetry.But one thing that volunteering as a moderator on Ok Cupid has taught me is that it’s not just the Nigerian scammers who have a grasp of English shakier than Greece’s medium-term fiscal policy – more depressingly, it’s local morons too.As you can see, both are identical except for the photos and the fact one has ‘overweight’ as body type and the other has ‘thin’.I also changed the wording slightly just in case OKCupid cottoned on and took them down.For the last few months, I've sat on my couch while trawling through dating profiles that have been reported by members who think they have spotted the tell-tales signs of a fraudulent user, or are shocked by a naughty profile pic, etc.Each reported profile is seen by five or six moderators and we decide between us whether to take it down or demand a different photo be used.The most important element to me is that no matter my size, I’m now twice as confident in my body than I was as a size 10.When I was thinner I was more self-conscious, less confident around men and much more uptight.

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